Now there was a man in ... Carmel, [who] was very rich. He
had three thousand sheep and a thousand goats. And he was
shearing his sheep.... The name of the man was Nabal {lit:
"a fool"}, and the name of his wife Abigail {lit: "source
of joy"} ... a woman of good understanding and beautiful
appearance; but the man was harsh and evil in his doings...
When David heard ... that Nabal was shearing his sheep,
David sent ten young men ... "... go to Nabal, and ... say
to him ... 'Please give whatever comes to your hand to ...
your son David.'"
Then Nabal ... said, "Who is David, ... Shall I then take
my bread and my water and my meat that I have killed for my
shearers, and give it to men when I do not know where they
are from?"
Then David said to his men, "Every man gird on his sword."
... about four hundred men went with David, ...
Then Abigail ... took two hundred loaves of bread, two
skins of wine, five sheep already dressed, five seahs {a
little more than a bushel, or about 10 gallons} of roasted
grain, one hundred clusters of raisins, and two hundred
cakes of figs, and loaded them on donkeys.
Now when Abigail saw David, she ... fell on her face before
David, and bowed down to the ground.
Then David said to Abigail: "Blessed is the LORD God of
Israel, who sent you this day to meet me! And ... kept me
this day from coming to bloodshed and from avenging myself
with my own hand.
... after about ten days, that the LORD struck Nabal, and
he died.
So when David heard that Nabal was dead, he said, "Blessed
be the LORD, who has pleaded the cause of my reproach from
the hand of Nabal, and has kept His servant from evil! For
the LORD has returned the wickedness of Nabal on his own
head."
And David sent and proposed to Abigail, to take her as his
wife. So Abigail ... became his wife. (1 Samuel
25:2-9,10,12,13,18,23,32,33,38,39,42, NKJV)
Nabal was a very rich man. At this time, wealth was
measured more in livestock, than in gold or silver. David
and his six hundred men had been living nearby in the
wilderness of Paran for a period of many months, all the
time raiding enemy communities for food and goods, as they
hid from King Saul and his troops.
Shearing time had come, which was a time of great
celebration in the ancient world. Nabal had over three
thousand sheep to shear and, of course, some of these were
killed to feed the shearers. Even though David and his men
had been nearby for many months, they had refused to take
anything from Nabal, and even protected his property during
that time. Since such obvious generosity required a reward,
David sent some men to Nabal to request some provisions as
payment for their time.
Nabal was a miserly and arrogant man, who considered his
own wealth above the needs of others. So he refused to
share his provisions with David, and slandered his
integrity. He even refused to listen to his own servants
who had advised him to be generous to David and his men. In
terror, Nabal's servants quickly ran to Abigail, Nabal's
wife, a beautiful and intelligent woman, for help.
Abigail quickly assembled a generous offering for David and
his men, mounted her mule, and hurried to meet David and
his four hundred armed men (two hundred were left to guard
their supplies). When David and Abigail met, David quickly
acquiesced to Abigail's plea for mercy, accepted her
generous offering, and returned to his own camp. Since
David had refused to vindicate himself but instead trusted
in the Lord, Nabal died a mere ten days later, and David
took Abigail to be one of his own wives.
So what can we learn from David and Abigail? First, the
Lord expects us to reward the generosity extended to us by
others, even at great personal cost. Second, true faith
runs towards the battle, not away from it. Third, true
faith, refuses to vindicate one's own self, but rather
trusts the Lord to balance the scales in His own time.
Fourth, true faith is always generous, neither stingy nor
miserly.
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Jon V Straumfjord III is the author of numerous articles
about the Seven Spirits of God and the God of the Bible. He
is also the creator of the website http://www.7-spirits.com
, and is the author of the book "The Seven Spirits of God."